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10 Years On: I'm Glad I Had The Courage of My Convictions PDF Print E-mail

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I Started My Business Because of My Daughter’s Battle with Eczema

 

When you consider that the World Wide Web only became commercially available in the mid 1990s you realise just how much our lives have changed in such a short space of time.

 

From booking flights and ordering groceries to keeping in touch with friends and family, the Internet is intrinsically part of our lives.


Health is one area where the Internet has had a huge impact. People use it to find information about all aspects of their health, often before making an appointment with their GP.

 

It is this proactive approach by patients that’s led to an increase in patient focused websites providing both information and much needed support.


According to an article from BBC Health*, people searching online for health advice often reject sites giving high-quality information in favour of those with a human touch.

 

Researchers found that sites including personal stories to which the reader can relate are favoured over drug company sites.

 

Many are drawn to sites where they can read about the experiences of other people who have the same or similar problems.

This is certainly true of my own experience.

 

It was my daughter’s battle with severe atopic eczema and a lack of emotional support that led me to start my first TalkHealth site, TalkEczema in 2000.

 

Within weeks of launching the site, people visited from all over the world. The site fills the gap that health professionals can’t necessarily fill; the desire for patients living with the day-to-day difficulties of specific health problems to band together and form communities so they don’t have to suffer alone.

 

Many people were sceptical when, during the days of dial up internet accounts ten years ago, I said I wanted to launch a site to bring eczema patients together.

 

During my research there were times when I doubted my instincts and almost abandoned setting up the site. But the constant reminder of my daughter’s eczema, and my desire to talk to other parents drove me forward.

 

I’m glad I had the courage of my convictions to press ahead with the site despite the lack of belief from others.

 

TalkEczema started as a hobby – a cry for help, and has developed into a credible business today.

 

Giving patients the chance to access a wealth of information in one place, talk to others who know exactly what you’re going through and learn about products and treatments that may help are some of the many reasons why patients keep joining sites like TalkEczema.

 

Deborah Mason, Talk Health Partnership

 

For more information visit http://www.talkhealthpartnership.com/

*Source: ‘Personal’ health websites sought, BBC Online, 7 March 2007

 
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Juices and Smoothies for Women in Business PDF Print E-mail

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A healthy you leads to a healthy business, so Change Nutritional Therapist Susan Kelly gives us some advice on Juices & Smoothies…

Juicers, smoothie makers and blenders often come out of the cupboards at this time of year as many women in business  try and recover from the excesses of the Xmas season.

Juices and Smoothies have such an amazing reputation for health and can be a fantastic component of a balanced diet but there are some things worth thinking about as you dust down your appliances...

Juices: If you have a good juicer (and don't mind the washing up!) this can be a great way of getting 1 of your 5-a -day...which by the way should actually be more like around '8-10 a day' for really optimum health.

A juice can only ever count as '1 portion' as it is the fibre in fruit and vegetables that contains many of the healthy compounds so whole fruit and vegetables should make up the rest of your daily intake.

There are some great juicing recipes and books out there so take your pick and experiment. An important thing to remember is that although fruit contains many nutrients, it is also often very high in fruit sugars.

A glass of freshly squeezed orange juice might contain as many as 7 oranges with accompanying fruit sugar- you would never eat that many pieces of whole fruit in a sitting and without the accompanying fibre, this kind of pure fruit juice can give a real 'sugar hit' and add to blood sugar imbalances.

Instead try vegetable juices or mix fruit and vegetables together. I find most people enjoy apple, carrot and ginger as this is quite a sweet juice.
Or try adding a beetroot for an amazing red juice with an earthy flavour.

Smoothies: I generally prefer smoothies to juicing as you can add in so many 'extra bits' for added nutrition and by blending the whole fruit the fibre is included so you don't lose out on nutrients.

'Smoothie Makers' are really just blenders with a tap. I think a goblet style blender is just as good and more versatile - I'd say these are generally the best for making smoothies though some of my clients tell me they can achieve some great results with a good old stick blender so give it a try.

There are some amazing goblet style blenders on the market, some so powerful they can make soups from scratch and heat them at the same time, but these are beyond the range of most of us (I am saving up for a Vitamix...long wait!).

I currently use a Philips HR2094 which isn't the cheapest but  is glass and quite sturdy so it can manage some heavy blending and can be used to make nut milk with its additional filter- it's also very easy to clean. 

This style blender has an adjustable speed dial which is great when adding large objects like quartered apples or soaked whole nuts as it can gradually break them down before turning up to full speed for a finer blend.

I'm putting it through it's paces at the moment so I'll report in future blogs what it can and can't do! (let's hope I don't kill it!)
Anyway, back to smoothies - there are many recipes out there for amazing smoothies. As a principle, I always try and add a protein food and sources of essential fatty acids to smoothies.

Try adding a tablespoon of peanut or almond nut butter (available in health food shops) or if your blender is powerful enough, soak some cashews or almonds for a few hours then throw them in.

Nuts really are a great source of protein, minerals and essential fatty acids. You can also add 3-4 tablespoons of whole fat plain yoghurt- additional protein and also contains some low levels of 'good bacteria' to support the gut. 

For something more filling like a breakfast, add in 1/2 cup of porridge oats and blend away or pour a smoothie mix on your muesli for added spice. Blueberries make lovely purple milk- kids love it.

Here's the smoothie I had as my mid morning snack today. I make them up as I go along adding whatever is handy and might add to the taste and nutrient content...


The smoothie with no name

1 apple- cored and cut into quarters
1/2 a greenish banana ( too sweet if allowed to brown)
3 medjool dates- stoned ( xmasleftovers)
4 strawberries
3 tbsp whole fat live yoghurt
1 tbsp almond nut butter (or any other nut butter)
1/2 tsp of Maca powder (optional - from health food shops)
1 tbsp organic cacao powder (optional)

Method

Put all of the above into the blender. Add a little water for the 'first blend' then, once a smooth paste has formed, add more to preferred consistency or top up with ice and blend until crushed
This is quite sweet and a moreish pick me up so a good 'not too wholesome tasting’ smoothie while you are still in festive spirits. But don't add real festive spirits.... not in the morning anyway  :)

Enjoy.
Susan Kelly, Change Nutrition  www.changenutrition.co.uk

 

 

 

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The Power Of A Woman PDF Print E-mail

Every journey begins with the first step, and so a new life, a new beginning also has a starting point and a destination.

For women here and now, this is to reclaim our birthright as powerful, beautiful, compassionate, wonderful loving beings living on purpose, rather than by default.

Buried deep inside many women lies a restless, unsettled feeling as though we have been snatched away from our true course, a hollow anxiety that we dare not express out  loud,  an  underlying urgency that propels us into fear and stress.

Pulled and swayed by the ebb and flow of the oceans, by the rise of the sap  in springtime and by the demands of our fluctuating hormones, we have learned to go out into the world and take a stand, immersed in the busyness of human ‘doing’  rather  than human  ‘being,’ while hiding, denying, disowning and dishonouring the depths of who we really are in essence.

We continue  day  in,  day  out,  toiling  in  the  frantic  pace  of modern  life,  hoping  that  things will  get  better;  that  if we work  hard enough  and  put  enough  effort  in,  then  eventually we will  be  able  to rest, to come home to who we really are.

Through the turmoil of the last century, at least in the Western world,  women  have  won  the  battle  of  recognition,  acceptance  and toleration,  and  been  allowed  input  into  politics  and  the  running  of society. But what we have failed to recognise is the cost to us as feminine beings.

The tide has swept us away into becoming imitation men. For too long we have been hiding who we really are beneath layers of armour of our own making – an armour consisting of us emulating men, dressing like them, using their aggressive language and working their professions to try and prove that we are not only as good as them, but in many cases better.

The problem is as we deprive our man of his male function, he feels less needed and therefore less masculine; as we women assume masculine burdens we take on male characteristics to fit the job.

Thus deprived of femininity and gentleness as our new male responsibility adds stress, strain and worry to our lives, our serenity vanishes and eventually our families suffer. Does any of this sound familiar?

And perhaps now is the time to admit it. It is time for us to grow up spiritually. As women we have the power to change the world in ways we have not even thought of yet.

It is time  for a  re-birthing;  it  is  time  for us  to  re-parent ourselves. It is a time to conceive again, to engender, to connect with the  fullness of who we  really are,  to grow, nourish, give birth  to and nurture a new way of being, a new way of womanhood that is dynamic and progressive, taking this beautiful planet and us to where we want to
be.

Women as the givers of life are the ones to do it.  We have to show the way.

We cannot fully express who we are if we are not in balance.

When we put ourselves in harmony with the eternal laws of life, we thus put the world back in harmony.

And as the creators of life, it is up to us to bring about this growth, knowing that in our wake is a myriad of others who will be influenced by us. And because we are the mothers of men!

©Susie Heath


Susie Heath is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach, Executive and Business Coach and Consultant, Corporate Behavioral and Cognitive Psychotherapist and workshop facilitator, with significant experience in motivating and implementing change successfully.  She is the Author of "The Essence of Womanhood - re-awakening the authentic feminine," and co-author of “Written in the Rainbow – a Woman’s Secret to Self-Esteem.


The above article is an extract from the book "The Essence of Womanhood - re-awakening the authentic feminine" and is copyrighted by Susie Heath.

 

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Stress Busting PDF Print E-mail

Stress is a state of mind that women in business can find themselves in, with so many balls to juggle. Top 10 tips to help - which one of these may help you? Decide and focus on doing it !

1.    Share your thoughts and feelings with others, saying it out loud makes it easier to cope with

2.    Get to know and like yourself more

3.    Recognise your own signs of stress and take action to reduce it, now

4.    Practice diaphramatic breathing at regular intervals throughout the day

5.    Use calming words to help you relax

6.    Have a good work life balance

7.    Be able to prioritise tasks

8.    Be prepared by having contingency plans for work and home

9.    Develop good social networks

10.  Be as active as you can ensuring fun and laughter are an integral part of those activities

Do you have any tips for stress? Post them in the forum!

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Ten Steps to a Healthier You! PDF Print E-mail

This article is designed to give you an overview of a few general steps you can take to give you some ideas of how to improve your health and fitness. You may want to print it also,a  there is some  really useful information to consider!

You should always consult your doctor before making any major changes to your activity levels, particularly if you are very overweight, have high blood pressure, or suffer from any other health problems.

If you want clarification on any of the points or if you are unsure how to best implement them for YOU, always ask a trained fitness professional (like me!).


1. Eat lots of fruit and veg!

The ideal is much more than the suggested “5 a day” and is infact closer to 11 a day. The vitamins and minerals you get from fruit and veg are known as micronutrients. Your macronutrients (carbohydrate, protein and fat) cannot function without them; hence vitamins and minerals are essential to your body.

Vitamins are plant based nutrients which must be received in your diet. Minerals are inorganic substances which are needed by vitamins to function.

Interestingly, 4% of your body weight is made up of minerals. They are mainly stored in your skeletal system.

The vitamins needed by your body are A, B, C, D, E and K. Vitamins A, D, E and K can only be used, transported and absorbed in the presence of fat. B and C are water soluble. The vitamin and mineral content of a food can be depleted by cooking and processing.

Each vitamin has a specific purpose – vitamin A is found in orange and red coloured fruits and veg. The colour comes from beta carotene which your body can convert to vitamin A. This vitamin slows the aging process, is good for eyesight and is anti- carcinogenic
Vitamin B (B1, B2, B3, B5, B6 and B12) are needed for energy
Vitamin C is used to balance energy, slow aging and assist the immune system
Vitamin D comes from sunlight. It helps to regulate calcium and the strength of your bones. Vitamin D can help with protection from diseases and interestingly, heart attack patients tend to be lacking in Vitamin D
Vitamin E slows the aging process and is also anti-carcinogenic
Vitamin K assists in the blood clotting process

Vitamins A, C and E and minerals zinc and selenium help to slow aging and prevent cancer. They are also anti-oxidants.

The recommended daily allowance (RDA) of vitamins and minerals was devised


Many years ago, based on how much you needed to keep diseases common at the time at bay – such as scurvy, TB and other diseases we don’t remember now. RDA’s are not amounts suggested to keep you in good health. In fact, to prevent from cancer, coronary heart disease, diabetes etc it is estimated that we probably need to intake more like 1000% RDA!

Unfortunately, due to the content of vitamins and minerals in our food being reduced due to the reduced content in the soil, it is difficult to obtain as many nutrients as we need through our diets.  Everyone accepts colds and flu these days – why? With optimum nutrition, we improve our immune system and keep not only colds and flu well at bay – we need to supplement vitamins and minerals to achieve this optimum nutrition.

I have always been very sceptical about supplements and strongly believe that you get exactly what you pay for. There are no laws in the UK to regulate whether what goes into a supplement is what it says on the label and so I recommend a supplement by an American company called Usana, which guarantees what they say is in their supplements is in them. The contents of their supplements are based on extensive research into what is required by the body, not out-dated research; the nutrients are provided in a way that your body can easily absorb.

I am keen for this article not to turn into a sales-pitch, so if you are interested in the supplements please get in touch.

2. Follow the Food Pyramid!

70% of your diet should come from carbohydrate. This is where your body gets its energy from. When you take in carbohydrate it is stored in your muscles and liver until it is needed. If there is too much to be stored it is taken to your fat cells. Always choose complex carbohydrates over simple ones. A complex carbohydrate is more difficult for the body to break down; hence you get more energy from it for longer. Examples of these would be wholegrain bread, rice and pasta, rather than the white or non-wholegrain varieties. You should have a high carbohydrate snack within an hour of finishing your exercise session.

15% of your diet should come from protein. Protein is used for building bones and muscles, making the structure within your hair and nails, making white blood cells, which are needed by your immune system along with various other uses.

15% of your diet should come from fat. This brings me on to the next point.


3. You need to eat Fat!

Fat is needed by the body for many reasons – insulation, protection of vital organs, protection of nerves, use of certain vitamins (the fat soluble ones) etc

A diet very low (less than 7%) in saturated fat is ideal but you need to take in poly-unsaturated fats, and mono-unsaturated fats.

A diet high in mono-unsaturated fat has been shown to lower LDL (bad) cholesterol levels, and are therefore thought to reduce the risk of coronary heart disease.

Poly-unsaturated fats are the “good fats” which have been popular with the press recently – omegas 3 and 6. These help keep blood thin, lower blood pressure, decrease inflammation and pain, improve nerve & immune function, assist with brain functioning, vision, learning ability and coordination and can regulate mood swings.

Sources of good fats include oily fish (salmon, mackerel, fresh tuna), sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds, linseeds and sesame seeds.


4. Cut out Sugar!

Sugar, among with other things such as tobacco and alcohol etc, are known as antinutrients. This is because they rob you of your micronutrients (vitamins and minerals). A diet high in sugar has a high risk of developing conditions, particularly diabetes and obesity.

Sugar causes rapid energy highs, followed by energy slumps, which make you crave more high-sugar snacks. It is far more beneficial to make better nutritional choices to
keep your blood sugar levels at a constant level to avoid the energy highs and lows of the high sugar diet.
Interestingly, many “low fat” products lose their taste when the fat is removed. Often, sugar is added to replace the taste. If you are making a good choice nutrition-wise, you should question whether having the low fat option is really necessary.


5. Can you pronounce it?

Turn into a label reader. If there is something in the list of ingredients which you cannot pronounce, or if you have no idea what it is – don’t eat it!

For, a perhaps slightly extreme, example, the below is the list of ingredients of the strawberry flavouring (nothing else!) of a Burger King milkshake:
Amyl acetate, amyl butyrate, amyl valerate, anethol, anisyl formate, benzyl acetate, benzyl isobutyrate, butyric acid, cinnamyl isobutyrate, cinnamyl valerate, cognac essential oil, diacetyl, dipropyl ketone, ethyl butyrate, ethyl cinnamate, ethyl heptanoate, ethyl lactate, ethyl methylphenylglycidate, ethyl Nitrate, ethyl propionate, ethyl valerbate, -ionone,heliotropin, hydroxyphrenyl-2butanone (10% solution in alcohol),  isobutyl anthranilate, isobutyl butrate, lemon essential oil, maltol, 4-methylacetophenone, methyl anthranilate, methyl benzoate, methyl cinnamate, methyl heptine carbonate, methyl naphthyl ketone, methyl salicylate, mint essential oil, neroli essential oil, nerolin, neryl isobutyrate, orris butter, phenethyl alcohol, rose, rum ether, g-undecalactone, vanillin, and solvent (3)!
Amazingly, all this must be cheaper than a handful of strawberries. These ingredients do not need to be written on the packet.

Our livers must process everything we put into our body, when the liver becomes overworked the chemicals can end up in our blood stream with almost unlimited access to the cells of our bodies.


6. Increase water intake!

Water is needed by your body for all cellular functions, infact your body is 60-70% water. Water keeps your blood thin which reduces how hard your heart has to work to pump it round your body – dehydration means your circulatory system has to work harder, and therefore increases your risk of heart problems.

Often people mistake signs of thirst for hunger. You should be drinking 1.5 to 2 litres of water per day, with 1 litre extra per hours exercise you do. You can get quite lot of water from fruit and veg. If you do not drink sufficient water while you are exercising, your body will sacrifice performance in your chosen activity for temperature regulation.

Don’t start by suddenly going from drinking no water to drinking 2 litres. Start with about 500ml and build up over a week or so from there.

If you are not drinking sufficient water, your body will begin to produce an anti-diuretic hormone to prevent further water loss.

I now come on to exercise guidelines. Good nutrition should come first, as if you have a poor diet any training you do will be pointless.


7. Take regular exercise!

Take at least 30 minutes exercise most days.

The Health & Exercise Authority suggests that for health benefits we exercise 5 times a week, at 50-70% of your maximum heart rate, for 30 minutes each time. It says these 30 minutes can be accumulative. For fitness benefits the HEA suggests we exercise at least 3 times a week, at at least 70% of your maximum heart rate, for 20 minutes continuously each time.

I would suggest you get at least 30 minutes exercise every day (this can be during your lunch break from work, taking the long way to the sandwich shop, parking further from the office than you would usually – etc). The ideal would be to do the 30 minutes at once, but 3 lots of 10 minutes would probably do just as well.

I would also suggest that you get in 2 or 3 training sessions on top of this – whether its going for a brisk walk with the dog at the weekend, or going for a swim with the kids, or doing a well designed gym program.

To burn fat you should be doing some resistance exercises. These don’t have to make you muscly if you don’t want to get muscly. Because of the energy systems used, resistance training is the most effective way of burning fat. Resistance training can also improve your posture, reduce your risk of osteoporosis (as weight bearing exercise encourages your bones to strengthen), increase endurance, improve joint stability (so less risk of injury), improve appearance and confidence, increase flexibility, improve motor skills (awareness of your body) and improve immune system.


8. Strengthen your core!

Your core consists of everything between the bottom of your ribcage and the top of your pelvis. As there is no protection from any bones around this area, strong muscles are essential to protect the spine. A strong core can increase your overall strength.

Because your core is / should be contracting all the time, statically, you should train it in a static (still) way. If you spend hours doing sit ups, as well as probably working your “outer core” you are training your core to work in a dynamic (moving) way – how often do you do the action of a sit up during the day?! It is much more effective to do exercises such as the plank and skydiver, which train your core to work more effectively in the position it is in for most of the day – still. See number 10 for more on functional training.

It is advisable to receive correct training from a fitness professional as to the best exercises to work your core, and how to engage it effectively. You must be careful not to push your stomach out when doing core work as this will train the “outer unit” of your core and do little to stabilise your spine.

9. Stretch!

Flexibility is unfortunately the most neglected component of fitness. It is defined at the range of motion available at a joint and should be within a “functional” range – how flexible do you need to be? If you are a gymnast, being able to do the splits is probably quite important, whereas for the average person, being able to do the splits is unnecessary and would be called being hyper-mobile (too flexible).

Most people who work in an office and spend a lot of the day sat down have tight hamstrings, hip flexors and calf muscles. This is because when your body is held in a position regularly your muscles shorten and lengthen accordingly to make the position easier to hold. For example typing at a computer all day encourages your shoulders to round, meaning your chest muscle becomes tight and the muscle which holds your shoulders back becomes loose and stretched.

As long as you are warm, flexibility can be done any time of the day – in front of the TV in the evening, after your gym session, in your office during your lunch break…

A fitness professional should assess your range of motion and advise you on which muscles are tight and need flexibility training, and which muscles are hyper-mobile and require strengthening. A fitness professional can also advise you on the most effective stretches for each muscle group.

A regular exerciser or sports player will also benefit from flexibility training as it can enable you to work through your full range of motion which assists your training, decreases risk of injury, improves your posture and therefore your performance in your chosen activity. Stretching also reduces the aching you feel after a hard training session!


10. Train Functionally!

Always train your body for what you are using it for. For example, if you play a sport you need to be able to move in all different directions, strongly, so you should train your body to be able to do this. Similarly, if you are a long distance runner you need strong legs – not just the ability to run long distance – and should train your legs to stay strong throughout the whole run, this will reduce your risk of injury.

If you are not a sports player or runner as above, and just an average person looking to improve fitness and, as most people are, lose fat, you should train your whole body equally, aim to improve your posture and increase your ability to do daily tasks. This should involve working your whole body, using as many muscles at once as possible (which as well as burning fat very effectively will also reduce concentrated stress on any one particular area of the body).

If every time you go to the gym, you spend 30 minutes on the cross trainer, followed by 20 minutes going round the resistance machines, ask yourself how functional your workout has been. Firstly, how functional is the cross trainer? How often do your legs go round in oval shapes while your arms push and pull sticks? (the cross trainer is very useful for people with injuries which prevent them putting any stress through the joints, we are talking about the average exerciser here). Secondly, how functional is it to use fixed path resistance machines, using which you can only make one movement pattern?

Lets use the squat as an example (this is the movement you make as you sit down), this exercise is primarily done to work your thighs. As you do the exercise it is not only your thigh muscles which are working, rather all your leg muscles are working to stabilise you, as well as your core, and many other muscles you hadn’t even considered.

The machine version of the squat is the leg press where you sit on a seat, with your legs on the plate in front of you, and push the chair backwards. The only muscles working here are your thighs as you push off.

I’m sure you can see the difference, and the benefit of using the free-standing version of most exercises. Fixed path machines are great for learning technique on, but they are not the only way to do resistance training.

Please note that it is ESSENTIAL to be shown how to use free-weights correctly by a trained fitness professional to lower the risk of injury


As you can see from the above there are many components to achieving a healthy lifestyle – a well designed exercise program, a healthy lifestyle, a good diet – and the list goes on!

If you would like any advice or guidance on any of the notes above please do get in touch with me !

Please do feel free to download any of the other free articles on my website – and sign up to my newsletter to receive monthly exercise / lifestyle tips, and recipe suggestions; and a copy of my new article, Myths of Fat Loss.

Article  by Heather Gillam from FitBizTraining

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Increasing your Positivity and Confidence PDF Print E-mail

Women in business juggle a lot of balls and keeping positive is a good habit to learn - these 10 top tips can help! Remember to do just one of these every day and share your success with other members!

1.    Appreciate the moment

2.    Maximise the positivity and reduce the negativity

3.    Challenge your self-limiting beliefs

4.    Keep smiling and laughing

5.    Put your heart and soul into whatever you do

6.    Reframe – speaking hopefully about everything you’re undertaking

7.    Look for the positive in any situation

8.    Share your positivity with others

9.    Believe in yourself and others will believe in you

10.  Practice all the above and your self-confidence will grow and grow!

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10 Top Tips to Manage Life Crossroads PDF Print E-mail

There are many reasons we find ourselves re-evaluating our life. There maybe tangible reasons which have force women in business into an unforeseeable crossroads situation, such as a bereavement, illness or redundancy. There are also intangible reasons which leave us with a sense of unfulfilment but we can’t quite put our finger on why, such as a lack of life purpose, unsatisfied with life, or experiencing lack of sense of self.

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How to Juggle Your Work and Life Demands PDF Print E-mail

Women in business live in a 24/7 global society, with endless access to sensational information and subliminal advertising campaigns which goes towards shaping our disposable culture.  From a very young age we are generally influenced to keep up with the latest trends, technologies and “must-haves” to appear socially acceptable. 

I believe that it is so easy to be consumed by what we should be, we often forget about who we truly are. Also, due to the addition of email and technologies such as Blackberry and Mobile Phones, we can be reached any time of the day or night. This means we can often unnecessarily burden ourselves with stress and anxieties.

Different parts of peoples lives often function better than others. Frequently our lives are out of balance we devote sufficient time or energy to some aspects, and not enough to others.

To determine how in balance your life is try completing the following ‘Life Satisfaction Check’.  This will help you to determine what aspects of your life you are satisfied with and which you are not.  Give them a rating between 1-10, 1-being dissatisfied and 10 completely satisfied, marking with a dot.  Then join the dots on paper to show your satisfaction ‘peaks’ and ‘troughs’.

Take your time to consider what your life would look and feel like if you could address the areas that you are not satisfied with. Then you can be proactice in thinking of ways to push the troughs up a few levels.

Next you can identify your daily and weekly activities at work and at home, for example:

Answering emails and calls

Travelling to and from work

Daily Administrative Support

Meetings

Housework

Cooking family meals

Decorating

If you want to be really accurate then determine how much time you spend over a week carrying out your identified activities. Think about some of the following questions which can affect the satisfaction of such activities:

How many of your identified activities are reactive or responding to others last minute demands?

Have you identified any tasks to move your life in a direction you want?
 

Are you eating healthily and exercising regularly to increase your energy levels?
Have you put together a Personal Development Plan to ensure you are managing your career opportunities and direction?
 

Identify those tasks that place unnecessary pressure on you, especially those that are not helping you to achieve a balanced lifestyle.

 

Consider what pro-active actions you can take to ensure you can work and play smarter. The following are a few options available to you:

 

  • Get assistance with cleaning or ironing once a week
  • Only answer emails between 1-3pm
  • Effective diary management
  • Share taxi duty with another parent
  • Always keep a stock of home cooked meals in the freezer for nights when you need a hassle free evening.
  • Employ a virtual PA to help organise key events such as parties, meals out, hair dresser appointments, house moves.
     

For more information on how to create a better work life balance contact me on               01252 540 560        or visit my website www.lifes-abreeze.co.uk

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"Yummy Mummy" 10 Step Plan PDF Print E-mail

"Yummy mummy" 10 step plan

Have you ever wandered what makes a mummy "yummy"?

Do you often wish you could look as good as your mum friends, who manage to look gorgeous even at 8am as they leave for the school   run?

I bet you're wandering what's their secret?

Putting together items of clothing and accessories for maximum effect can come easily to some, but not others. Some of you would like a step-by-step guide on how to do this without it requiring too much time and effort on your part....here's the key....making time for you does take time and effort, but not as much as you may think, and the benefits are well worth it!   Read my tips below....

Whether you are in your 20's, 30's or 40's, you all deserve to look the best you can. If you've favoured practical over impactful for the last few years, I can understand why. However, by taking time out to learn key image skills that will last a lifetime will be the best emotional (& financial) investment you can make...and, provide your kids with positive role model body-image messages.

Step 1
Make sure your wardrobe is well organised. That will make it easy to find what you need quickly and effortlessly. Don't know wear to start? How about a wardrobe workout?

Step 2
Invest in a fab pair of jeans that are easy to wear, flattering and can be dressed up or down. Remember, the darker, the smarter.

Step 3
Have basic tops in a variety of colours that allow you to mix ‘n' match with neutral bottoms. Layer different pieces together to look ‘current'.  A knitted tank top or this coming season's re-emerging item, the gillet, can work wanders.

Step 4
Make sure your clothes show your silhouette and suit your body shape. Baggy items not only add extra pounds but also show that you don't care much about yourself. Chose more tailored items, such as corduroy blazers or collared boiled wool cardigans with darts to show your figure off or to hide problem areas.

Step 5
Include skirts in your wardrobe. There are many styles that work well for casual wear and are easy to wear and practical for your daily lifestyle. Think denim, corduroy, tweed, even tartan (a key A/W ‘08 trend)

Step 6
Look for high quality fabrics - like cashmere, wool and silk blends. Not only will they signal ‘classic' but will also be key when dressing up your fab pair of jeans in a hurry! A welcome alternative to the fleece.

Step 7
Wear nice shoes, sandals, pumps or boots to finish off an outfit. Simple touches of detail and texture will make a difference. This is where you can really have fun with your wardrobe personality!

Step 8
Don't forget to add accessories to give you that ‘finished' yummy mummy look. This is the main area that gets overlooked and can also be what makes you memorable. Is this
one of the areas you lack confidence?...  Style2you can show you how!

Step 9
Try putting different colour combinations together. For example, a fuchsia top can really bring alive a plain pair of trousers and look just as good with a pair of stonewashed jeans. Want to find out your colour direction? 

Step 10
Always wear lipstick or lipgloss. Even if you don't have time to put on a full make-up, this along with some blusher and mascara will help make you look and FEEL refreshed and vibrant!

Final words from Fiona of style2you:

"Don't be limited by what other mums wear. Just because they choose not to make the most of themselves and dress to impress, doesn't mean that you can't!  So, go on, do something different tomorrow morning and I challenge you not to feel slightly more "yummy mummy" than today!  You may even receive a compliment from a stranger..."

For more info on this Autumn/Winter trends visit www.mycapsulewardrobe.com

*If you would like to have a no obligation chat about how we can help you achieve your desired ‘look', please contact Fiona on               01442 822093        or               07969 001031       .

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Style over fashion - any day! PDF Print E-mail
Style over fashion - any day!

What's marks the difference between Victoria Beckham & Nigella Lawson? Fashion victim or style icon? 

I'd go for style over fashion - any day!

The most important piece of advice I give women in business is to celebrate your strengths and play down your weaknesses - this is done by being critical about what fashion has to offer each season and whether it will work for you.

Unless you are very young, I feel strongly that stylish should be your aim. You need to know what the trends are when you are buying clothes, of course this helps, but you don't need to look like a fashion spread. There are all kinds of debates about style and whether it can be bought or learned.  Let's think...there are plenty of rich people with no style whatsoever so it can't be bought. And there are plenty of female entrepreneurs with a  limited budget who always seem to look good, so it definitely isn't expensive.

Most telling is when someone has understood what suits them and wears clothing to suit their individual body shape - this is something you can learn once you are familiar with your body and able to select the styles you need to create the right balance for your shape.

Style is what other women will notice and admire about you, so make that something that you can effortlessly achieve for yourself today...

A FASHIONABLE approach is adopted by someone who wants to be seen to be part of an invisible club called ‘hopelessly up to date'. They will talk in riddles about what is ‘in' and ‘out', they see their clothes as ‘must have' items and are always looking ahead to see what is coming next. The can judge other women harshly as they judge themselves for not having the lastest bag or accessory. Confidence is something that is achieved once they have all the ‘right' clothes on, but next season everything is changed or thrown out, once they see the newest collections...Victoria Beckham?

A STYLISH approach is taken by a woman in business who has no need to be part of an exclusive club.They appreciate clothes as fine items of adornment that will enhance their day. They do not judge others, and will willingly compliment another woman on her appearance. They know what will suit them and don't nee to be dictated to by the fashion world, although will just as happily clap hands with delight as the new styles hit the shops. Confidence is something they already have, by enjoying who they are and what they have done with their lives. In their wardrobes will be a selection of clothes that fit well and have stood the test of time, as well as some fashion items because they are fun to wear...Nigella Lawson?

Which one are you aiming for? Share your style ideas with members in the forum!

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